How to stay optimistic

Why do you become pessimistic -

Life is full of ups and downs. No one can predict about the life. Happiness and sadness are integral parts of life. Life's events are like waves which come and go away leaving their impacts on life. Effects of some of the events are so severe that it changes your way of thinking. Sometimes, you begin to lose hope and sometimes you begin to see things in positive way. Sometimes, some of the impacts of the incidences even compel you to become a pessimist. You become fastidious, hopeless and everything around you look bleak and meaningless. You become cynical and your negative mindset neither let you be happy nor you are able bring joy in lives of others. You begin to see the world unfavorable to you. You never expect good from your surroundings. You  begin to say to yourself " Nothing good will happen with me". World is not good for me". Incessant failures in life makes you pessimist. Pessimism overcomes your thinking, it completely stops you to see the things in positive way. When you get pessimist, it gets difficult for you to move ahead. Your overall growth in life stops.You can not enjoy your life wholeheartedly. You get pessimistic not only about yourself but you begin to see every things which are supposed to occur in your surroundings in negative way. Sense of pessimism never lets you evolve your personality. 

How to stay optimist - 

You need to develop a mindset of being positive and hopeful. Hopelessness becomes big hurdle in your life's progress. You need to remove those hurdle through staying positive as well as hopeful. You need to be optimist. You need to tell yourself " Whatever is going to happen, that will be good for me". Few tips could play significant role in bringing a change in your way of thinking. You can change yourself from pessimist to optimist. 

1. Develop self confidence - Self confidence lifts your moral up. You need to believe in yourself. Believe in your capabilities and hard work. You need to develop sense of competence inside yourself. You should say to yourself " I can achieve my goal if others could do it" Say to yourself " One day i will also materialize my dream into reality" You need to believe in your calibre and capabilities. 

2. Self positive Talk - Talk to yourself and remove your pessimistic thought. You should develop sense of self esteem. Don't underestimate yourself and calibre. You should motivate yourself by talking to yourself positively. You should talk to yourself " You have everything in you what others have in order to get success".You should accept your mistakes and tell yourself "I have done mistakes, I will not do them again" and find out the ways not to repeat them.

3. Read the biography of successful persons - Read the stories of winners and successful persons. Take the lesson from winners how did they work hard. How did they overcome their despondency by their indefatigable efforts. Success wants your positive mindset. Take lesson how did successful people never lose hope even after facing so much obstacles in life. You may create sense of hope inside you  by getting inspiration from their way of thinking and their actions. 

4. Concentrate on your target - Don't think about the outcome rather concentrate on your task what you are supposed to do. Don't say to yourself " What if I don't succeed" Or "your efforts is useless" Instead of underestimating your effort, You should try to be focus on how to improve your performance. You should be target oriented, consistent and believe in yourself. 

5. Avoid the company who are hopeless - Spend your time and company with those who are encouraging. Avoid the friends and relatives who always make you discourage by reminding your failures instead of highlighting your capability. You may encourage yourself by remembering your small achievements which could help you in dreaming of achieving a big goal. 

6. Enjoy the work you are assigned -  You should  enjoy the work you are assigned to do. You can get fruitful results and it could also develop sense of hopefulness if you enjoy your work. You could change your hopelessness into optimism by taking interest in the works what you are assigned to do. 

Pessimism and optimism are just like happiness and sad moments of your life. They come and depart from your life provided that you believe in yourself, concentrate on your objectives and the goals. Negative thoughts keep coming in your mind with the incidences in life, what you have to do in such situation is to develop sense of positive mindset so that you change yourself from being pessimistic to optimistic.