How to judge - Right and wrong

                  What is right & what is wrong ?

Thing which is the most difficult is to distinguish what is right and what is wrong. Sometimes our activities which we think right are seen as wrong in other eyes and the things that look wrong are deemed right by others. The clash between good and evil in one's mind is the main reason behind emergence of the perception of what is right and wrong. This very clash  between good and evil in our surroundings that doesn't let us justify right things as right and the wrong things as wrong. Our choices, preferences, ability to perceive the things, power of discernment, thoughts, problems and the interests differ from one another. Sometimes your efforts to bring a smile on someone face causes of frown on someone other's face. There is saying " If you want to please all can please none " rebuts this idea when one says that whatever one should do in one's life is not only to make oneself happy but to make others happy too. 

Besides the positive traits, by and large all of us do have some negative traits inside us such as jealousy, cruelty, hatred, competition, greed, ego, selfishness, surpassing over others, self esteem and above all the obsession of material things which not only stops us from saying the right things as right rather even wrong is sometime justified as right. 

Question emerges as who can judge well as to what is right or wrong ? No one. It is only you who can judge between right or wrong provided you have good perception skill. There is saying " Self care is the best care" So, you can take care of yourself well only when you know how is taken care of.  

Things which are taken into account while committing or judging between right and wrong :-

Thing which comes first that determines what is right or wrong is our feeling. It is our feeling that determines what is right and wrong. Conscience is a sort of feeling that distinguishes between the right and wrong. Role of conscience emerge before all of us while one is hurt or harmed by  others. We usually name it ' lack of conscience'  when one inflicts pain having ignored the feeling of right or wrong. 

Consciousness -  Awareness is one of the basic  requirements to justify about the right and wrong.

Perception -  By and large all of us get effected  by various type of events in life as well as the  changes that keep occuring in our surrounding. We keep feeling  those changes all through our life. When the time comes to decide what is right or wrong we use those feeling to form an understanding.

Moral values - All of us have positive traits such as honesty, friendship, love, respect, peace etc. These positive human traits and their application in our daily life not only help in making environment pleasant but these add value to one's life.    

Place of morality, conscience, ethic in daily life -  Have we ever violated morale values in our daily lives ? Answer may be " More often ". Fact is that most of us are sometimes forced to take such step in daily life which our conscience doesn't allow us to do. Yet we do. Sometimes even after knowing that steps which are going to be taken by us will hurt someone. Yet, we don't hesitate to take those steps. We to an extent set aside the morality, conscience ethics for our own benefits at some point of life.

How to judge - What is right or wrong ?

Fact is that It is very difficult to judge what is right and what is wrong. Our growing expectation, desires and aspiration that never give us time to mull over about right or wrong when it comes to self interests, aspiration and expectation. We are compelled by expectations  and aspirations to ignore what is right & wrong. And fact is that  all of these take us to the path of frustration and disappointment. These make us negative which eventually causes of  taking some of the amoral decision in life.

Few tips that could help in judging right and wrong -

1. Always be positive in life.

2.Get ride of frustration and disappointment.

3. Be realistic when it comes to aspiration and desires.

In brief, taking wrong decision where we should have taken right is normal phenomena of life. What one needs to do before judging or committing right and wrong is to not only stay positive but one should also bear in mind values of life