How to make a good positive image

What does image mean? 

When a baby is born, first thing he demands from his parents, family or society is to give him proper name besides the other basic needs. In other words, giving a proper name to a new born baby is one of the primary responsibilities of a parents towards the new born children. Name is a form of identification which is given to every objects by the system we live in to run it smoothly. With the passage of time requirements of a new born baby keep changing. When a small child grows older, his attires,  interest, likes and dislikes keep changing with the time. One thing that doesn't change is one's  identity - an identity that one gets through one's name. Although, at later stages of life some of us do try to add  suffix or prefix in one's name but one is hardly able to changes one's inborn identity. 

With having a specific identity, one thing that  one could contribute much to the system  wherein one lives, is to make an image for oneself. It is obvious that the identity which is given by family and parents is not one's own achievement rather it is a kind of step which is taken in order for formulating a social system. By the time we reach to an adulthood, we begin to think beyond our identity and a sense of making our own image starts taking place in our minds. We become image conscious.

What does image mean ? In fact, all of us want  to be looked good, smart, handsome. All of us like to get applauded by others for our appearance,  posture, works, behaviours and the achievements. Who does not want to be called " good, trusted, respected"? Image is a kind of social wealth for which all of us keep struggling the way all of us keep pulling others leg down in order to get economical gain. In short, a good or a bad  Image is a reflection of your achievement, work, activities and behaviours. 

Benefits of a good positive image - 

1. It helps in strengthening a good relationship among your acquaintances. 

2. A person who has a good image is able to  succeed in influencing others.

3. Your suggestions and solutions are welcome and taken into consideration by the people.

4. It could get you adequate recognition and respect.

5. A good image helps a person in achieving his personal goals.

6. It contributes immensely in establishing credibility in respective fields.

In short, a good positive image not only plays a significant role in a person's own personal growth rather it may also contribute substantially in formation of good system around you. Hence, it gets essential  to concentrate on making a good personal image if one wants to move ahead in life. 

How to make a good positive image -

1. Building a good relationship - First thing that one needs to do for having a good positive image is to have good cordial relationship with the people you live. Secondly, strengthen the relationship by following the principle of give respect and take respect. 

2. Be clear and honest what you say and do - Transperency in day to day matter is essential to  make good  image in surrounding. Equivocating during any matters can mar the prospect of a good positive image. So what one needs to do is to be clear and honest in day today matter.

3. Bear in mind emotion and feeling of people you interact with - Instead of thinking about oneself only, one must also take care of other's emotions and feelings in day to day matter. One must entertain others views and feelings before coming on final conclusion in day today matters.

4. Never impose your ideas forcefully - There can be a possibility of losing your good image if you forcefully impose something upon others. Hence it becomes necessary to give some space to others to share if they want to say something even if they don't agree on some issues with you.

5. Behave well and ready to serve in need - Your behaviours reflect your image. So behave with others in such way that no one could question your credibility and reliability. Always be ready to serve others when they need your help and guidance.

6. Be patient and listen your critic - You may have to face a situation where you could lose your patience. Hence by controlling your anger and with poise mind you could control bad situation getting worse. Anger is natural. Nevertheless, Even if you see that somebody is provoking you. Try to Control yourself until the provocation reaches to extreme. Make a habit of learn and listen. 

7. Keeping human touch - Some of our activities and behaviours don't match with the behaviours that is defined for good human beings. So, we need to keep a human touch  during handling the matters if we want to make good and positive image for us.

In short, fact is that making good and positive image is not a easy task that too when all us have their own different opinions, requirements, interests, feelings and responsibilities. Nevertheless, last but not the least one thing that needs to be done before concentrating on making good image for yourself that is, to remain cautious of those elements who are always after you to tarnish your good personal image.